5 Terrifying Thoughts Your Cheating Husband Hears When You Say I Love You

It is very likely that you will want to save your marriage after your cheating husband's affair has finally been exposed to you.You want your husband's affair to end now. You desire some indication from your cheating husband that you are important and you are wanted. To win back your cheating partner you may employ this strategy out of neediness and fear.

When you say "I love you," especially repeatedly, it often pushes your spouse away and in essence, probably does not reflect the truth of what you really want to say.

Take a look at 5 ways your spouse may respond internally when he hears the words I love you coming from you. Then let's look at 5 possibilities of what you are really trying to say.

5 Ways Your Cheating Spouse Might Respond Internally When He Hears I Love You

1. I hate it when she says I love you. That makes her really unattractive. It really turns me off and she sounds so sickening and needy when she says that. When she says it I think of a whiney little kid who needs reassurances. Sorry I'm not there and I don't want to be a mother.

2. She loves me... Right, how can she love me when I've done something like this? Who can love someone that fools around on them? If she fooled around on me I wouldn't want her.

3. Yeah right, what does she want now? She's just saying that so I won't leave or she's just saying that to get me to leave "Debbie." She's using that to manipulate me so I will just walk away and not respond at all.

4. She loves me... What in the world does that mean? What is she trying to say when she says that? I don't understand. Is that all she can say? Isn't there more she needs to say to me? How am I to respond? Say I love you too? Man, it's not that simple.

5. Hey, this is cool. I have 2 women wanting me. Wow, it feels great to be pursued by 2 women. It is great to be loved by 2 women. This might be acknowledged but it might lie behind a need to continue the drama of a soap opera.

5 Possibilities Of What You Are Really Trying To Say

1. Don't leave me... Calm my fears because I'm not sure that I can. I'm afraid of life on my own. Tell me you love me and that you will be there for me so I don't have to think of making my own way. I'm terrified of what might happen.

2. I'm sad... I feel sad because I don't want to see the relationship and my dreams crumble. It's sad to feel the distance, mistrust, pain and agony. It's sad to think of that which might never happen; growing old with you.

3. I need you because my life is incomplete or insufficient without you. I need you to define me because I have little clue of who I am and outside of you. I cannot think of having a life of my own.

4. I remember with loving feelings who you were, who I was and who we were. I remember the good times and the way it used to be. I miss what it was like to love and be there for each other. I love those memories and maybe that's all they are.

5. I'm a wimp... I don't like to rock the boat and I don't want to confront you with what I'm really feeling and thinking. I don't want to take a stand and say this is enough. I will tolerate almost anything.

Does this help you to understand what is really happening when you say I love you especially at this juncture in your relationship? Maybe you would like some help with other issues in your relationship. Do you need help to stop the haunting images of your cheating spouse? If you do...

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